April Fools or New Year? Discover April Celebrations

Happy New Year! April Fools…not 🙂 really, Happy New Year!

In fact April Fools Day used to be the actual New Year way back in the day. When you think about it…it makes sense. Spring is a time for change and renewal while winter is hibernation and rest. Imagine someone having the power to change the calendar? We do! Power is with the people.

April is the month where many countries keep the rhythm with cyclical time and bring in the new year. Several countries in Southeast and South Asia, primarily those using lunisolar calendars, celebrate New Year in April. These include Thailand, Cambodia, Myanmar, Laos, and various regions of India, including Nepal, Sri Lanka, and Bangladesh

Here’s a more detailed look:

These April New Year celebrations often involve water splashing (Songkran), feasting, and paying respects to elders, as well as other cultural traditions specific to each region.

We’re bringing in the New Year! Water tag!

Happy splashing. Happy renewal. Wash away worries and live life with purpose, on purpose!

Spark Joy

Have you ever noticed how a child’s face will come alive when they are doing something they love and enjoy? Even grown ups will light up when they are doing something they love.

People who love what they do and love who they are don’t take vacations from it or from themselves. It lights a fire within sparking up a joy that cannot ever be contained. In life, humans light each other up along the way like lining up dominoes and with one gentle nudge, each domino knocks into the other crashing and cascading down. Or like Pringos, “Once you pop, you can’t stop!” LOL

No one can ever take that purpose away once ignited. It cannot be faked, copied, or even categoried <– made up word. Be you and pass on your light of being. The greatest gift is the gift of oneself. One’s own transformation and change.

Who are you? Who are you becoming?

What are you?

When were you? When are you?

Where were you and where are you?

Why are you?

How are you?

Be and become. The light. The love. The joy. The hiccups. haha

Energy Efficiency for Every Family

Another winter goes by. With the changes, one thing hasn’t: an electric bill.

Every family feels the cold of winter while sledding or tubing. We feel it even when turning up the thermostat with or without the hot chocolate .

Next winter solar energy is the solution for the monopoly game we’re playing with electric. Going solar was the best decision for our family. Passing this solution onto yours. Say Jill sent you and then pay it forward and pass it on.

Calling for a new Prescription: Playtime

Children should at least get 3 hours a day outside to play not in front of screens or constantly listening to lectures. (Yes screens when used appropriately and lectures each have their own respective places). However, I (we) am/are calling for some tune ups in our public school schedules as well as curriculums. The amount of children in our society who lose focus, have increased behavioral problems, diagnoses for all of these “labels” is truly astronomical. Our school is a microcosm of what is happening nationally. Every year should not get more challenging for a school and its teachers / administrators / leadership. We need to rise to this challenge and return to basics. Do you remember playing as a child? At home and at the schoolyard? How much time did you have? How about the games you played in your childhood? Tag, freeze tag, races, hide and seek, Mr. wolf/fox, climbing trees, rolling all around, creative and sustained imaginative play … so much happens for children during this process of play. And, truthfully speaking, grown ups need a little folly in their lives, too as Erasmus well put it. Without it we are walking shells of a human. Children are showing us what they need. Some are loud about it and some are quiet about it. No one wants to sound, be or be remembered like the teacher (or parent) in Charlie Brown.

We are society and can change it. We know and are aware as educators about true and real life child development. The stages we all learned about and went through ourselves as children: Sensorimotor, pre-operational, concrete and formal. We need more playtime not more screen time / not more memorization/rote learning not curriculum that is abstract and out of touch with real children and how they learn. When it comes to testing and what a child “knows” we need both objective and subjective. We are all human. We need brain breaks. “Coffee breaks” for grown ups and “Energy” breaks for children.

We do not need more regulations or checklists…teachers, families and our schools are communities of “life-long”-curious-engaged learning. Should feel joy and fun coupled with respect, responsibility and a life-long readiness to learn and have curiosity. We all want what is best for our children / our future. Three hours of focusing on “school work” without a brain break knowing humans tend to lose focus most easily (in five minutes) especially when they are tired, stressed, experiencing distractions in their environment, performing repetitive tasks, or when dealing with complex information for extended periods of time. It is a lot we are requiring of our children. We have to be the change we wish to see in this world as Gandhi put it.

There truly needs to be a tune up. As a community school we can be a model for what real life / engaged learning embodies, looks and feels like. Children (truly, all of us) learn by doing and being active, engaged participants not passive observers. Using what they learn to apply it in real life / challenges is the best gift that we can give and bestow upon our children/our future who we pass the mic too. Here are several articles that I hope inspire you.

https://outwardbound.org/blog/how-much-outside-time-a-day-is-recommended-for-kids/


https://hechingerreport.org/want-resilient-and-well-adjusted-kids-let-them-play/


https://www.healthychildren.org/English/family-life/power-of-play/Pages/the-power-of-play-how-fun-and-games-help-children-thrive.aspx

Ps. Feel free to share this with your schools. Peace, love, joy, compassion and light. Your way, always.

Presents or Presence?

Before you buy a bunch of stuff for people for holidays or birthdays…ask them what kind of gift do they want or need? What do you want to give?

Do they need the gift of quality time? Do they need the gift of service? Do they need some affirmation? Do they need to dance? Do they need a meaningful gift?

Keep it simple and ask what they need. Listen carefully.

Do they need any help?

Do they need someone to listen over a cup of cocoa coffee tea?

Maybe they need a kid free night.

If it’s for a child…could it be something they really want to do?

Maybe they could use a home cooked meal. 

Maybe they don’t know what to ask for or are too embarrassed to ask.

Maybe you can be the one who gives them what they need instead buying more stuff.

Maybe make something for them.

In fact, I wrote a book about this theme of too much stuff entitled:

The Stuffed House. https://www.amazon.com/Stuffed-House-Jill-Telford/dp/1484182316 and https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/18218199

It encourages donating stuff you no longer need or use. It also uses personification to bring humor to having too much stuff! We cannot take all of these things when we level up aka when we die. So, again, let’s ask: “presents or presence?”

Three Gifts: Time, Talent and Treasure

Out of the three gifts we all possess, this little blog nugget will center on: the gift of time.

Please take a moment and take at least twenty minutes today and each day to do something with your kiddo. No commands, no goals, just be present in the moment. Give the gift of time and presence. We are here to become memories for them.

Shhhhh. Do not give directions. Be quiet and follow their lead. Listen. Actively listen. Really and truly listen. No interruptions. Just be in the moment. No questions asked.

Play, be in the moment.

One Day at a Time

The biggest adventure you can take is to fulfill your dreams one day at a time.

Life is not a checklist of all of the daily to do’s. Life is not a to do but an active pursuit of doing. Life is adventure when you do what you want to do. Actively and passionately living it will bring you joy. Presence is necessary daily. While others are making plans, choose to live. Dig deep to plant some roots. Even the flowers of life have roots. Where do your roots run? Where does the stem grow? Where does the crown reach?

Imagine for a moment if you will that you fall asleep one evening not ever to wake up again.

And while you sleep…your life flashes before your eyes.

How did you live it?

Did you choose peace? Did you choose war? Did you choose violence? Did you choose love? Did you choose the dark? Did you choose the light?

We have the power to choose.

Choose the active verb of life.

Live.

And, by all means, live it well.

No Such thing as a Bad Kid…Remember that!

Instead of asking: “What’s wrong with him or her?” Ask, “What happened to him or her?” This will help you guide and have a better relationship with the children and grown ups in your life.

In a society that is in a rush to label, diagnose fix and break, be the exact opposite, be the one who slows down to notice, show compassion and listen. Just be there through the tears, through the ups and the downs. Notice and be present. Love.

We are society and we can in fact, choose love, consistency and conversations where we listen more and talk less. Slow down, listen to what children are showing and sharing. You will find out exactly what they need, don’t need and in return what you need and what you don’t need.

Slow down. Turtles have a lot to teach us in this way. Not the ninja turtles but the ones who hold up traffic as they cross the street. Taking their time. One turtle paw at a time. One paw in front of the other. There are times to be a cheetah and there are times to be a turtle. Choose wisely.

Notes of A Grateful-Hearted Teacher and Life-Long Learner

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I was feeling grateful while reading an article that reflected on whether teaching was stunting other passions by Patrick Harris. Throughout it, I felt affirmed and validated in my own decade and a half experience from being busy all of the time to finding the time for the other things I care deeply about such as writing and creating. Read more from the article that inspired this one below:

Teaching just like receiving an “F” or a zero on a paper can literally “suck the life out of you” in the words of Rita Pierson but a “plus two” or being in pursuit of your passions / what you care about can fill you back up a bit.

The dilemma all comes down to having no time to pursue the other things that you love.

The top three for me are: reading, creating and travel. 

That is what I intend to keep on doing. 

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