It was a cold evening in Arlington and I was walking around a few blocks during my 30 minute break. This happened pre-pandemic back when we were at school in person and not online.
I stopped at a corner, as light snow started falling, a rose blanket caught my eye.
It was tan and worn out patterned all over with roses. It covered a man crouched and hunched over in the corner.
I stood still in time watching the man under the blanket. Strangers on the street walked, kept walking by. They had places to go and people to see.
Two strangers were walking up opposite sides of the sidewalk. One stranger with a dog. The other stranger with a warm drink cusped in their hands, steam rising from it. Maybe a coffee or maybe a hot chocolate. Maybe, neither. They stopped in front of the man with the rose blanket.
The person holding the warm cup asked about the dog and if she could pet her. The dog walker nodded, “Yea, go ahead she’s friendly”.
The woman with the warm cup placed it on the ground, knelt down and pet the dog. She asked, “What’s her name?” The dog walker responded, “Rose.”
No one asked the man with the rose blanket covering his shoulders like petals, what his name was. The strangers didn’t ask each other’s names either.
Why do we call humans homeless when we’ve in fact, made them strangers? We’ve turned them nameless. We’ve turned each other into strangers.
The holidays. Depending on your perspective is a time for thankfulness and togetherness.
What type of thankful and gratitude are you showing? What are you giving, what are you noticing…what are you asking?
I am asking for names.